WHAT DO WOMEN LOOK FOR IN MEN? (PART 1)

You all ask about the qualities we want in men,
but trust me
you can never be ready to adhere to what we say.
We,ladies, are to be submissive to our men only because it is written in the Bible,but are you really ready to adhere to what the Bible says?

Anyway, this not even about religion.
Dear men,
If you really want to be the perfect groom/husband/boyfriend for a woman,
how do you stand up for yourself?
Do you just sit back and be a coward or do you face it and handle the problem? If you are a coward, how do you expect her to feel safe around you?


Do you just wake up, get a girl pregnant then leave? or do you sort out issues between you and decide the fate of this child? remember, killing is a sin.


Men are supposed to be the head of the family, and believe me when I say that a lady will first treat you the way she wants to be treated, then again treat you the way you treat her. Let that sink in. Tame your lady the way you want her to be,because the way she dresses, the way she makes her hair, her behaviors, her physical appearance, tells alot about you, as a man.


Women love to be shown love,so if you are a man and you don’t reciprocate your woman’s love then what are you doing? “As Christ loved the church and handed himself over to her,husbands,love your wives,sanctify her, cleanse her by the bath of water with the word,that he might present himself to the church…(Ephesians 5:25-30).
Commonly known type of a woman the proverbs 31…for so long this has lingered in my head. How do you know she’s the proverbs 31 type? Do you act less of a man and expect her proverbial characteristics to pull up?


I’ve heard my friends talk of how women have been empowered for so long that the society has failed to teach men how to handle the empowered women, true?


Well maybe, I’d say it all depends with the decisions people make.
There is a deadline for blaming parents for our bringing.
When the age is attained to know right or wrong then we are able to decide what we want for ourselves, some of us are too dependent we fail to notice the years passing.
Getting a girl pregnant means responsibility,noo not responsibility like provide her with money to abort the kid… responsibility like, ‘ you made your bed, so lie on it.’
I’ve seen deadbeat guys speaking of the girl they want… question, ‘ Are you the guy the girl you want wants?’
Food for thought;
Do we attract what we are? If yes then we need to change and be what we want.😊

Check out for part 2…

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