THE PIT HOLE IN YOUR FRONT POCKET!

Time waits for no man.Talk of money, time, emotions, our physic is being drained, individuals we let in our lives some are user’s. Invariably there to feed off and benefit from us. Do not get me wrong, there is nothing better than giving, but we cannot give blindly. If is not okay to give but do not give to a point that you lack.


I have been in position where I have questioned whether I was giving too much then it hit me the mere fact that I was questioning my giving goes to show that the receiver was not worth it. When you find that you are feeling drained then the friendship is a toxic one and it is time to walk away.


Time is of the essence and there is no need whatsoever to keep yourself stuck with individuals who want all of your time but can give you zero of their time ,individuals who when you need them are nowhere to be found but when they need you, you have to stop all that you are doing .Relationships should be a giving and taking basis.


Talk of money, have you ever found yourself get someone gifts but if you look through you closet there is nothing that they have ever gotten you ?you should give without receiving but at the same time do not remain blind to reality. Do remember that a relationship is a form of investment, and if at all you make wise investments you will reap off beautifully. I am not suggesting that one has to get you a fortune for them to be considered as good friends but if at all an individual cannot even spend a shilling on you then kindly they are not worth it.


Why strain your emotions waiting on someone call yet they can never call you, why strain yourself going to knock at someone door yet they are not ever there? Why waste your time cracking jocks with someone who can never lend an ear to your problems? Someone who can never ask how you are fairing.

Do remember that a relationship is a form of investment, and if at all you make wise investments you will reap off beautifully.


A friend in need is a friend in deed, and as Felix Oduor the famous “Jalango” once said “Do not call people your friends, do not call people your best friends ,do not call people your neighbors ,do not call people your colleagues let your hard times introduce your true friends ,introduce your neighbors, introduce your true colleagues “
Save your time, money, emotions by keeping the truest around you. Weigh the odds and keep the trust.

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