WHAT TO CONSIDER WHEN MAKING A DECISION

Decisions, the choices or judgements that we do make almost in our day to day lives after thinking deeply over something that happened or what would be your next action plan.

Many are those that tend to choose on the right path no matter how ugly a situation is like and in the end they sum up to be winners or conquerors in their various flaws that show up.

This is determined by how much one realises their strengths and works in their best and possible ways to come out a winner.

The other side of the coin is, well as we all know, the wrong and dreadful decisions that tend to veer us off the right track and put us into that bottomless pit where we can’t get a hold of ourselves.

These are the major groups, definitely with another being at a point you know nothing to do with decision making.

Here’s a brief guide onto choosing to do what is right this new year:

KNOWING YOUR STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES
This is key for everyone. We are all wired differently and we need to know very well how well we are good at handling some situations. Are you they type that would run up and down in circles when something happens or be the one that is calm and is ready to accept the challenge and figure out something to ‘save’ yourself.

How good are you are at solving issues, but let’s call them challenges? If not, have an open mind with a person you feel comfortable with or one with experience like a counsellor to help.

TAKE KEEN INTERESTS ON THE CONSEQUENCES OF ACTION TO BE TAKEN
Always there is that little person in us that tells us “NO!” Or “YES!” to some particular action that we think of doing. Are you careful to spot down and listen to what they have to say?

Always ask yourself, “Is what I’m about to do important, if yes will someone he proud of the action I took? Then would God be happy that I did this?” If they all have a positive response to what is about to be done, then go ahead.

Give a deep thought into what could be the results of your actions.

WHAT DID HE DO?
A question some ask. This is brought with the fact that some people have undergone the same challenge at some point in life. Truth is you’re not the only one going through the same. All that matters is, how will you handle the situation at hand?

We could search for someone who had the same and skills how they did cope with that. More like a mentor into the same situation you are going through.

So, find that person. It just could be your close friend or relative who is within your reach.

PUTTING IT TOGETHER
With the ups and downs and busy schedule, we should create some time off specifically to self reflect on our selves. Identify our challenges and how well we will handle that. Have a check up book to note down any possible thought you give into solving a missing puzzle in your life.

Be composed and ensure you give it your best.

BE GREATFUL
Challenges are meant to make us stronger, not to put us off. Instead of worrying be greatful that you’re growing and that you are now able to make important decisions in your life. See yourself as achieving already and make sure this becomes a habit, to always be a conqueror.

These, I hope, help you to do what is right and keep trouble off your bay.

QUOTE
The day I cease to to the right thing, is the day I cease to be a leader.
~Nelson Mandela