HOW TO BEHAVE ON YOUR FIRST DATE (The Gentleman Series: PART 1)December 17, 2019
How you behave on your first date determines whether you are going to get your second date with her or not. As a gentleman, you should know the arithmetic logic of earning you points on your first date with that lady you have always wanted to impress.
I tend to see ladies like that tray of eggs; you just have to handle them with care and pay close attention to the surrounding. Reality check is that you are not the only one hitting on her. she has over a hundred dudes buzzing her dial, about 4 hindu guys sending her dick pics in her DM, 40 other matches on tinder, classmates and colleagues who are in the queue as well, and then there is you, a good looking gentleman with standards and class.
Here is the leakage to how you are going to win her heart on your first date.
- KEEP TIME
Keeping time is paramount in all perspectives of life. You should be there before time so that you can choose the best spot for a cool vibe and also relax. You should not be the type that keeps her waiting. she can’t wait for Jesus to come back and still wait for you, no bruh.
- DRESS TO IMPRESS
Drip. first impression really matters. How you dress speaks a lot about you. You don’t want her to go back home having negative considerations about you just because you had that Arsenal jersey, buggy jeans and some rusty sport shoes on. don’t slip up like that. Get a fitting suit and match your way to that date. Be dapper.
- KEEP YOUR PHONE AWAY
Well of course you are curious to know who texted or who tried to call you. Just don’t do it while on that date. Give all your attention to her. she needs it. Girls are naturally attention seekers and the moment you deny her that ‘right’, you lose her. put your phone on silent mode and deep it into your pocket. sometimes shit happens, your ex might call that very moment.
- MAKE HER FEEL COMFORTABLE
Smiling is enough to make her feel free with you. Don’t make the date feel like an interview. listen to her while she talks, pay attention to details, they love that (trust me on this.) Be funny a little and you will see the waves flowing smoothly.
- PAY BILLS
Before you suggest where to meet her for the date, its always good to chose a place that your wallet can handle. I’m not talking about a cheap restaurant. Choose a posh yet affordable restaurant where she can enjoy the jiffy without feeling insecure. ensure your credit card or wallet has enough dough to cater for the date.
- DON’T RUSH TO IT
A gentleman takes everything slow. There is a process to everything. yes, some people smash on the first date, but you are not some people, you are that real gentleman. Let that sink in for a moment. If you want her for a long term, then you should ‘marinate’ her well. Give her time to gain trust in you and be comfortable with your bedroom demeanour.
- MAKE SURE SHE GETS HOME SAFE
After the date, you should always ensure that she gets home safe. whether it’s driving her home or getting her an uber. This will show how much you care about her safety.